Sunday, December 31, 2006 

T-minus 14 days

Wow...this just hit me. It's becoming more of a reality every day that we are launching TXC every week in 14 days. In two weeks time we will have just had our "grand opening" and begin an amazing journey as a fresh church in Mission. I can't wait and at the same time, if I think about it too much the anxiety can really get to me. I've never been a lead pastor before. I've never had to champion anything bigger than a program so in my human side of things I'm a little nervous. BUT...

2 things I'm confident in: the people on our leadership team and God. I am so thankful for both. The people shaping our leadership team right now are absolutely phenomenal. Dave, Charlene and Tina are the types of people that go over the top to get their job done. In fact it's not a job, it's passion and because of that I'm confident that God has brought us together of this time.

But even with all of our gifts and talents and abilities we can't pull this off without God. we are trying to reach people who are disconnected from Jesus and we'll go to great lengths to reach them (even at the expense of ticking of the religious community) but even with all of our efforts it's God who draws and changes people. We may be able to spark some interest through advertising or by the people in our faith community talking about how much they like their church but that in and of itself is not enough. It's takes the Holy Spirit to draw people. Once they are a part of our community they can enjoy what's going on but what we do won't change people. Only God does that. And for that I'm grateful. We will do whatever we can and everything that is in our power to connect with people but when it comes to changing people that's God's business and that makes it easy to sleep at night.

Wednesday, December 27, 2006 

Tithing re:wired

Next week sometime I've got a meeting with a guy who is gonna hook us up with a wireless interac machine. At first, because we are meeting in SilverCity, we were going to remind people about the ATM machines out in the lobby. But after we thought about it, we figured that it would be really lame if every week we said "And oh ya, don't forget about your offerings...and for your convenience there are fully loaded ATM's out in the lobby for you to go and empty so you can fill up our popcorn buckets!" I'm not sure that would go over that well. With this machine people will just see it as they walk past and over time will know what it's for.

The problem is that most of the couples and young adults that we know don't carry cash and they don't know how to write cheques. This machine will give people the ability to give without needing cold hard cash in their hands. I know it's gonna help me...there's been too many weeks where I've forgotten and had to run a cheque over to our book keepers house during the week.

However, we purposefully didn't get the credit option because I'm not sure i agree with the whole "going in debt" to tithe thing. yes, there are some that pay it off. And the air miles option is really nice. But it's not about the return. It's about letting God be God of your finances and life by giving up what is already rightfully his anyways.

 

Sweet relief

ahhhh...sweet relief. I arrived at my inlaws today but on our way over here I had a thought that ticked me off. I forgot to bring my wireless router so I could use my laptop for the days that we're here (an unknown amount of time at this point so this is CRUCIAL!) But to my surprise, when we showed up I found out my sister in law has a wireless router and my brother in law was hooking it up. If you don't have dial up internet you have NO idea what I'm talking about and can't feel my pain:) Needless to say, I've been on my laptop non-stop. No joke. It's my new drug of choice (high speed that is). I've got access at my office (City Blends) but they don't have it password protected so I think there are too many people jumping on it so it's super slow and sometimes I can't even connect it's so slow. Anyways, this vacation is off to a good start!

I guess I can't really call this a vacation because this last few months have been pretty lax for me. And seeing that we launch in 2.5 weeks I can't really take a vacation. I've got too much stuff to get done in these next few weeks to be over here in the first place but what can you do. I'll be writing messages and designing graphics and thinking through our next series that we launch in February. It's called "The Naked Truth" and yes, the emphasis is on "naked" but it's the truth about naked...haha...

I am getting so stoked about the launch of TXC. It's been a long time coming. Our original launch date was Jan.'08 and with a series of different events it got bumped up a year. My old senior pastor from our sending church asked me, with what I know now, if I could have waited another year to launch and I honestly don't think I could have. It's like a fire burning in me that I can't put out. It consumes my thoughts all the time...everything I see and hear I'm relating to the church and how they relate. I believe with all my heart that God has brought this about for this time in this place. There is so much that has been impossible but it has happened (I still can't figure out how we got our stinkin' sound system paid off!)

Monday, December 25, 2006 

What goes around...

I posted a few days ago about the power of generosity and yesterday it came my way. Our old landlord came by and dropped off a present at our new basement suite. We lived there for 3.5 years and I think we rubbed off on them a bit and they started to like us. After he left we checked out what he gave us and it turned out to be $100 to Save-On-Foods and $40 to a nice greek restaurant in Mission. I couldn't believe it! Not just because our 'old' landlord gave us a huge Christmas present (they gave us huge presents every years but we didn't expect it this year) but for the fact that last week I was in Superstore and felt God tell me to buy 5 $10 gift cards to give away. And in all honesty, we really didn't have the money to buy them. I just felt like I should really be obedient. It's not that I try to listen to God's voice and act on it so I can get back in return but I really believe that God works that way. In 2 Corinthians 9 Paul says that when we are generous God will be generous back to us so that we can continue being generous...and this is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to generousity references in the Bible.

I don't really think there is anything wrong with buying 'stuff' for ourselves to enjoy but when that stuff comes at the cost of those who really need it, I think there may be something going on that should be. It's so easy for us to be stingy. It's so easy for us to think about ourselves before we think of others and even God.

I told Bek earlier this week that this was one of the first times that I've honestly considered skipping tithing because we may not have enough money to pay the bills (the most commonly used excuse for not tithing). The conversation was really short and we both agreed (after Bek promptly saying "no way!" - that's what I love about her...her faith is huge. I married the sexiest, most godly woman I know! ...just a shameless plug:) that we would not rob God. I know...some of the people reading this don't get tithing...that's okay. You won't understand until you do it and see the rewards (not money rewards...but the knowledge that you have now invited God into the world of your finances.)

I find it odd how I could even second guess God's ability to provide for me. My understanding is that by not tithing I'm saying to God that I want to play god in my life and that I can handle this on my own and I don't need Him to be involved in my life. Tithing tells God that I am reliant on Him. And for a small second I thought that I could play a pretty good god in my own life...glad that got shelved as quick as it did because we all know that I suck at being god.

All this talk about tithing is because I also believe that being generous with God is one of the reasons why we are seeing this money come out of no where (there are lots of other ways that God is providing finances for us as well that I've failed to mention in this post).

I believe when we will really start taking being generous seriously and it not just being something we "do" but something we "are", ridiculously huge things will start happening in our lives and in the lives of those around us.

 

Is it possible to fill a niche that is already filled?

One of my favorite bloggers, Seth Godin, made a really good observation in one of his books and he just restated it on his blog.

He says, " Bottom line: growth, if it's growth you're after, doesn't come from acting like you are already the dominant force in the market, able to deliver average products for average customers. Growth always comes from the edges."


So my question...is it possible for a church to fill a niche that isn't already filled?

What do you think?

Tuesday, December 19, 2006 

The power of generosity

At our staff meeting last night I brought up the fact that the last time I was in super store I suddenly felt this "urge" to buy 5 $10 gift cards so that we would have them in our van and could use them whenever we saw someone to give one to. I said this just to illustrate the point that it's super easy to forget to think about others, especially around Christmas. It's easy to think about 'our' family but when it comes to someone elses' family, our mind draws a blank. (Is it just me?)

Anyways, I guess I was saying this a little bit loud and a couple sitting at a table behind us was eaves dropping. When they got up to leave, the woman came over to our table, dropped down $50 and told us to buy 5 for her and give them away! I couldn't believe it! I have no idea who this woman is or anything. Generosity is more contagious than we know. In fact, I think that generosity is the primary action of love (Love is a verb...not a noun) and if people are going to know us by our love, I think we need to learn our to be generous.


Then today I dropped off our second to last payment on our sound system. In the envelope I included a $100 gift card to the keg. Now, we have given this guy more than enough money for our sound system. But because he has been so good in letting us pay it off over a period of months instead of days, we wanted to bless him. When he opened the envelope his jaw dropped. He was literally as giggly as a school boy. He's said that he's never had a 'client' do that before and that usually it's the other way around. And I agree...it is backwards. People just don't give stuff away like that...especially to someone that doesn't "deserve" it.

Don't take this the wrong way. I don't say this to brag in the least about how good we are. However, I do say it to brag about the power of generosity. It really does work. I believe it has the potential to change our city and surrounding area. It is so contagious and as we give people will see Jesus

 

We got rid of our gas!

Our gas giveaway was a flying success! We gave away $1100 dollars worth of gas cards and gave cookies and hot chocolate to people filling up @ the Safeway gas bar. A highlight was when someone asked us who we were and after hearing we were TXC she said "Oh! I've heard about that church!" Not sure how she heard, but the buzz is getting around.

Thursday, December 14, 2006 

I'm gonna freak out!

I'm telling you...there is nothing worse than what I'm experiencing right now. Any one who is as much of an internerd as I am will feel my pain. It's almost as painful as that feeling you get shooting down your spine when you hear fingernails slowly but steadily screeching from top to bottom.

It's called a freaking 56k modem! Yes...dial-up. We just recently moved into the back of Mission, past the two prisons (yes...I said two and they are side by side). We are so far back and so high up that we can't get cable or adsl. You thought the good 'ol snail mail was slow...dial-up is almost as sluggishly slow. Tonight is a "rip-your-hair-out-of-your-scalp" night.

Tony Morgan made a crack on his blog about "remembering dial-up". Oh I remember it alright! I wanted to cry when I read it. That nasty sound of who knows what crackly and howling away in the speakers is a reminder to me ever time I dial up (and get disconnected and dial up........and get disconnected and dial up)

Every time we want to use the phone...it's disconnect and wait until the conversation is over. It wouldn't be that bad if it didn't take 5 minutes to dial up!

If your really annoyed with this post and are tired of hearing me complain...good. Now you've just felt some of my pain.



On a more serious note...It really is no wonder why it's so hard for a lot of us to get motivated to actually sit down and pray and read our Bibles. It's not instant. It takes work. It takes us actually slowing down and listening. As soon as it gets rushed it becomes a waste of time because it's being done out of duty and not a desire to grow. Even 5 minutes would be better than nothing but we are so programmed to want to multitask. My buddy Dave just got a new computer and he texted me while his computer was doing 4 or 5 things at the same time with no problem at all. I'm dreaming of that...seriously. I try to do that. I listen to a sermon podcast while reading a book or surfing the net. When I'm in workout mode (emphasis on "when") I try to listen to a sermon every time I work out...all because I get two things done at once. Everything is high speed, fast speed, warp speed.

Maybe we are missing what life is all about by being so psychotically revved up all the time. Maybe if the rpm's could actually come down a few thousand we could hear The Voice that gets drowned out by the roar of the engine. Maybe the life that God intended for us to live was one where rest was a primary thing and not a thing we do when our head hits the pillow from exhaustion at the end of the day. Maybe a part of following Jesus is taking the risk to do less in order to see who he really is. Not taking so much on in an attempt to accomplish more for the kingdom.

Maybe we all need dial-up.

Monday, December 11, 2006 

Adventures in church planting

If I had a few things I could tell a person who was wanting to plant a church, this is what I'd say as of right now:

1. Make sure you know without a shadow of a doubt that you are called to this thing. Because there are seriously days when you will think to yourself that you made the wrong move. You will feel like quiting because things aren't going the way that you planned. The only thing that will keep you going is the fact that you are called. If you aren't called, you'll more than likely quit when stuff starts to suck.

2. Don't start solo. I can never imagine doing this. Our launch team was phenomenal. We only had 4 couples but every person on the team has a vital part in what we do. Will everyone that was on the launch team stick around? I hope so but I have no idea. All I know is that they are awesome people that have given a lot of themselves to get this church off the ground. It now gets a little messy now that we are going to be meeting every week. Not everyone on the launch team is a part of the leadership team so they won't be a part of the weekly meetings any more. However, they continue to play a huge part in what we do. The biggest thing is having people on the team that are first bought in the vision completely and then also have a certain level of competence in some area of the church.

3. Don't let money be the determining factor with you starting. I know some people that say you shouldn't start until you have $100,000 raised. Ya, that would be nice but I'm not sure how realistic it is. I wouldn't argue with anyone if they gave me that money but so far we haven't had that happen and we are starting a church. We have support from our Sending Church and that has been a huge blessing for me personally and for the church as it has allowed us to use other money that we bring in to use for church expenses. It hasn't been an easy ride either. I've racked up a fair share of credit card debt that I'm sitting on and paying the interest on until we bring in enough money to pay it off...but I'm okay with that. Some people will totally disagree with this and that's okay. All I know is that I have this insatiable drive to plant this church NOW. Originally we were supposed to plant in Jan. '08. Well things changed and now we're planting a year earlier. I'm prepared to do whatever I need to in order to be obedient to what I believe is God telling me to plant this church now. With that comes the responsibility of financially going all in. If you aren't willing to do that, you shouldn't plant.


There is so much more I could say but this is what is popping into my mind right now. I absolutely love this ride. I could never imagine doing anything else. It's the freakiest thing I've ever done and yet the most exhilarating. We went to a very traditional church yesterday and there was nothing in me that wished it could still be in it. It was just the opposite. I was reminded of how much I actually love this. The fact that we are creating our own highway through the forest. The options are limitless. There is no-one creating our ethos for us or demanding we do things a certain way to make them happy. We can choose a direction and just go for it with everything that we've got. Is it easy? No way. But easy is boring. Bring it on.

Thursday, December 07, 2006 

It's a go!

I just talked with the Safeway gas bar manager this morning and everything is a go.  I ordered 110 cards that we will give away on Dec.16th.  After talking with her and having her be so open to the idea, I think we are going to stay at the gas bar and give out the cards to people who are already getting gas.  We’ll also give them cookies, hot chocolate and wash their windows.  She figured that around 150 cars would come through from 1-5 so we will almost get them all covered.  She was so happy that we were doing this.  I’m not sure if she was a Christian or not but it’s awesome to be able to start building relationships with businesses and people in the city.  Like I said yesterday…it’s just the beginning.

 

 

Wednesday, December 06, 2006 

Just the beginning

Wow!  That’s all I can say.  I’ve been hearing some crazy stuff today regarding the buzz in our city about TXC.  I honestly can’t believe it.  I do know that we have an extraordinary team that is incredibly talented.  But we aren’t THAT good.  I can think of a few things that are getting people stoked up:

 

#1 -- It’s a God thing.  This is so clear to me.  I was talking with a  friend of mine today and I mentioned that if he knew who I used to be…he’d laugh.  Heck, the people who knew me way back when laugh.  They know this isn’t in my character.  This is something that God is doing.  He’s changing me along with the rest of the leadership team into the people he wants us to be.

 

#2 – It’s simple.  We put a lot of work into what we are doing at this moment.  We’ve only met 4 times but we’ve poured ourselves into every second.  Some may say that what we are doing is complicated…that’s fine.  But for us this is simple.  (not easy to pull off but not complicated with tons of different programs to confuse everything.)  Every gathering we have one theme.  I was talking with Dave (our worship guy) about the fact that we are a bit different from what we’ve known traditionally as far as the music is concerned.  Traditionally, the music is the “primer” for the sermon.  We’ve decided that we want to communicate one central truth each time we gather and that everything, music, media, spoken word, silence, etc, will communicate that truth.  When someone leaves, we want them to be able to remember the truth, apply it to their lives and ultimately begin the journey of change.  As well, I think our philosophy is very simple: connect the disconnected to Jesus (mission).  We accomplish this by becoming contagious whole life followers of Jesus (vision).  We accomplish our vision by living out our 5 core values.  Now we don’t have  a patent on this and someone could look at this and see tons of holes….there probably are.  This is just what we feel will ultimately enable us to connect the disconnected to Jesus most effectively.  It’s not rocket science but it seems people are really excited about it.

 

#3 – We are extremely conscious of guests.  It’s very easy to get ingrown and not really care if a guest comes in, as long as my song gets sung and the sermon is an hour long.  Because we are a plant it’s easy for us (at this point) to focus very clearly on guests (because almost everyone who walks through the door is a guest).  We have had comment after comment regarding how friendly it feels as soon as people walk through the doors.  Honestly this is very cool because in movie theatre there is ample distraction and the fact that we can keep people’s attention is very cool.  We are in the process of making guest bags that will have a $5 gift card to starbucks in them.  Some might say we are bribing them…I’d disagree.  The fact that we got them to come to church is our first win.  Getting them to connect in with the community is another.  If a guest shows up and feels no value whatsoever, why would they come back?  We want their first experience to be an amazing one and for them to see that we will spend a little bit of money to make their experience positive I think will speak volumes.

 

#4 – What we do, we do well.  I’m extremely proud of our team.  They are absolutely phenomenal and everything that we have been doing so far has been done extremely well.  There is obviously room for improvement but I think given the circumstances, they’ve done a phenomenal job.  I’m not a huge fan of just doing something for the sake of doing it.  If we’re gonna do it, I want to jump in with both feet, fully submerged.

 

#5 – We’re real.  If you know us, you know that we are just real people.  My closest friends would vouch that I don’t have much of a personality.  If this is gonna work, it definitely won’t be based on who I am.  I really don’t know how to preach with a preacher voice.  I don’t know how to pull off a fake smile.  When I do…you’ll know…it’s gimped.  This was honestly one of my biggest insecurities coming in…that I didn’t know how to be a “big person pastor”.  I don’t have it all together.  But the launch team assured me early on that my biggest strength was my authenticity.  Everyone else is real as well and I think this plays into the friendliness factor.

 

#6 – The location is incredible.  I love the theatre.  I had one guy call me and tell me that he has a biker buddy that feels like if he was to walk into a church God would strike him dead immediately.  This guy told him that he’d been to the movies before and that it’s was a safe place to come.  He assured him that we are all laid back, dress casually and are just plain real.  He said he’s gonna come check it out.  A school or a hall is great, but the theatre is just so high profile.  Everyone knows where it is and the concept is just foreign to people in this area.

 

#7 – We focus on Jesus.  Had to save number 7 for Jesus.  Don’t follow me.  I’ll let you down…guaranteed.  Follow Jesus.  I just point people to Jesus.  This whole thing is built on Him.  It’s a cliché but it’s so true in our case that we are nothing without Him.  Without his death and resurrection we don’t have a church.  We don’t have a reason to gather.  We have no hope.  No grace. No forgiveness.  It’s all about Jesus and I will rant about that and point people to Him until the day I die.

 

 

 

If you have anything to add to that list, feel free.

 

 

On another note, I talked with the Safeway gas bar regarding our gas giveaway on the 16th and had a good chuckle.  We brought in $1,100 on Sunday to go towards it so I wanted to know if I could buy $1,000 worth of $10 gas cards.  She was a little shocked.  I then told her that we were giving them away.  She was confused.  I then asked her if we would be allowed to give them away at the gas bar and wash windows and give out hot chocolate and cookies.  She then asked me why the promotion was for and I told her there was none…that it was free.  Her jaw dropped.  She asked me why I don’t just do it for the church people and I proceeded to inform her that the church people had given this money so that we could do this for free.  She was lost.

 

It’s so funny how being generous just really doesn’t make sense to people.  We live in a world that is so greedy and self centered that when someone comes along trying to bring a little light into the place people just don’t get it.  I LOVE IT!  We are going to confuse the heck out of this city!  This seriously is just the beginning.  I was telling a guy today that I really don’t want to own a building because that’s where our focus will end up.  I would love to bring in thousands of dollars a year that in turn just go out.  I would love to drop $10k on a local coffee shop to help pay for their lease just because I love their coffee and they are independently owned and they add a huge element of community to Mission.  I’d love to help other churches pay off their mortgages.  I’d love to pay for certain peoples’ utility bills for an entire year.  I’d love to give the Union Gospel Mission so much money that what they could do with it would be unimaginable.  It’s just the beginning.

 

This seriously isn’t about us.  If you think it is, you are going to be seriously disappointed.  Everything we do is to connect the disconnected to Jesus.  I understand people are hurting in our church and they are on a healing process but they are healing so that they can more effectively connect people to Jesus.  We gather so that we can more effectively connect people to Jesus every second that we aren’t gathered together.  This is all about the disconnected.  It’s just the beginning.

 

 

Monday, December 04, 2006 

The out of control control freak

It's true...having people watching a movie in OUR church yesterday at the same time as "church" was going on was a little chaotic and out of control. It was frustrating at times to see a huge lineup only to know that they were going to the movie. All the video games were running...there was a lineup for the concession...it was just crazy.

And then it kicked in...we were talking about the fear of losing control and here I was trying to control this chaos. When I stopped to think about it the realization that this is what we are all about hit me and I started to embrace being out of control. How many of these people would have ever stepped into our "church" if we hadn't been meeting in a movie theatre?

Here's a question: At what point in your life is control ever achieved? Is it possible?

When I was prepping for this talk I had a God moment I think...either that or I just taught something that really isn't in the Bible. The passage is in Matt.14:22-32 where Jesus is walking on the water and calls Peter out.

Go read it.

Did you see it?

When Peter starts freaking out because he's not in control and he starts to sink...what does Jesus do?

If you said that he grabs Peter's hand you may need to re-read that part again.

He watches. Yep. Peter starts to sink and Jesus watches. How long do you think he would have watched for?

So when does Jesus grab Peter's hand? When Peter asks for help. I wonder how many of us or stuck in the middle of a storm and Jesus is standing right beside us but because we are too stubborn and prideful and want to stay in control of our lives he just sits and watches us drown. Does Jesus just step in sometimes...probably. I think the prayers of other people prayed for you move the hand of God. Does this happen all the time? I have no idea and I don't want to find out. Because if Jesus is just watching until I ask for help...I think I'm gonna ask because there is only one other option..drown. I've come to realize that I'm just not that good. I'm not God. I can't save myself from very much at all. I like to think I can. I like the world to think I'm some big macho man but in reality I'm just a little weakling with not very many answers, more questions and a full on need for God to be my God. I can't be God. I don't know how to be God.

I'm gonna ask.

Sunday, December 03, 2006 

Last sneak preview

It came and it went but it was a blast. We had our first run in with what it's really like to be meeting in the marketplace. We showed up only to have the manager fill us in that the wing the kids usually use was going to be used for a sneap preview of a new movie. So we had a massive line up trying to get into the theatre...the only problem was that they weren't lining up for church! Some of our guys were trying to convince them to check out our "sneak preview". Some of them were actually curious and said that they would check it out in January when we launch every week. We'll see where that goes. It was a little chaotic but it was actually really cool. It showed me how I am used to my little church routine and that when people interrupt our flow I don't like it...and that's messed up because we've got all of these people in our "church"...they just don't know it. And they are the people we are trying to connect with. So after a few minutes of irritation...I dealt with it and moved on. We ended up having our biggest crowd yet and everything went extremely smooth. The band rocked out and our bass player that we got to sub in was sick (that's a good thing for those of you who don't know). Our sound guy, whom we've been paying, offered to help out and train some new sound men which was an answer to prayer. Heck I'll even pay him to do that.

Anyways, now we've got a long haul until our launch on Jan.14. It'll be really nice to be going every week and get some serious momentum rolling. In the meantime we'll just keep moving forward and building relationships with the rad people we've met so far.

Today everyone gave enough money for us to be able to pay off our sound system and buy 100 gas cards to give out on Dec.16 for our Great gas giveaway

On another note, we moved out to Mission on the 1st and we go so blessed. Our "suite" has a massive view of the southwest valley and is huge. It's perfect for us to be able have people over and actually be able to breath. We just can't get over how much we love living here. There's just something about it. Once I get my internet working properly I'll post some more.

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